Today’s world is moving fast in terms of improved technology, education, lifestyle and communication. At the same time, human behaviour is degrading due to lack of politeness, thankfulness, civility and regard for other people’s feelings. A major factor for the growing disrespect in our society is the erroneous way we raise our children. We thrive in situations where people are kind and are respectful towards each other.
“Treat others as you wish to be treated. Don’t just be nice, but be kind to other people. That can be so rewarding.” – Mary Lambert
Here are some helpful ways of teaching your child to be kind and respectful –
Don’t accept rude behaviour
Often when children make a rude remark or do something unkindly, parents become hyper-reactive and yell back at them. Displaying rude behaviour from your end is like justifying their actions and remarks. Make sure that your interactions with other adults both inside and outside your house are respectful. Demand polite behaviour from your child at all times and ascertain that impertinence will not be entertained.
Offer praise
Children enjoy positive feedback as much as adults do. Offering encouragement and praise is paramount in establishing good behaviour. Intangible gifts in the form of hugs, love and recognition prod your child to behave well. For instance, if they do not particularly like some of your guests and yet choose to be respectful towards them, appreciate their attitude and thoughtfulness.
Pay attention and listen
By offering consideration, eye contact and attention, you let your child know that you value them. Hence he or she will not be prompted to yell in order to gain your attention. When they tell you a story that happened at school, do not just mumble but actively listen to them. Children pick up these cues from parents and behave in the same way with others.
Talk about it
Parents should not ignore bad behaviour and pretend like it never happened. Instead, choose to talk about it and have a discussion with them. When we deal with it objectively, children understand their wrongdoings and it creates the scope to improve their behaviour. Talking to them about it in a respectful tone makes them take responsibility for their behaviour and own up to it.
Kind and Respectful Agree to disagree
Firstly, parents and children are separate individuals with different personalities and opinions. Once the family comes together and accept their disagreements, every member will generate more respect and kindness. When tolerance towards diversity is taught at home, children will cope better with the differences in the world and be courteous to other people.
A positive school culture
Children grow emotionally and intellectually in an environment that is friendly, open-minded and approachable. Winmore Academy, one of the finest CBSE schools in India, weaves the theme of respect in the classroom atmosphere. We encourage the uniqueness of our students and teach them to respect each other’s distinctive qualities. At Winmore, it is not just about appreciating the similarities but also celebrating the differences.